Living over 12 years ago by Liz Adams

Be Grateful

FridayMy week is ending on a sad note as I am currently in Kansas saying goodbye to my grandmother who closed her eyes for good earlier this week. She was 91. Can you even imagine being 91? What a trooper. My dad comes from a town of a thousand people in central Kansas. They have one traffic light, no clothing stores, 2 restaurants, and one motel. My grandfather owned the auto body shop in town and my grandmother was the first female president of the Bank, and together they had 3 kids, the youngest being my dad. My dad is obsessed with family – obsessed may even be an understatement, and I think this stems from his amazing parents. Sadly, I never had the opportunity to meet my grandfather, he passed away six months before I was born which means my grandmother had been alone for 27 years. She had never left this sleepy little town where she grew up, met my grandfather, built a home and raised a family. She mowed the lawn until she was 84, baked the most amazing homemade cinnamon rolls, would make my sister and I matching outfits, and was really just the most wonderful woman I have ever met. So today we are headed to central Kansas to celebrate her beautiful life.

I always tell my family how lucky I feel to have this little town in my life. Living in a big city, and being a part of a world that is filled with competition, material things, lies, judgement, greed, and dishonesty can weigh on you. This town is like a clean slate. The world moves a little slower, people go unnoticed, the surroundings are raw and things are perfect just as they are. Something everyone could use a dose of from time to time. I am so thankful to have my dad who carries these same ideals with him to this day, who keeps me grounded, and who has taught me the power of being grateful. All thanks to his parents, my grandpa and my Gogo. May she rest in peace.

So just be grateful, it’s a good reminder for a Friday. Have a great weekend + thanks for reading! xo

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  1. Beautifully written and true. I am so sorry for the loss of your grandmother, I hope you have a special time celebrating her life and memories. Thinking of your family.

  2. I can relate completely to the town you describe. I grew up in a town like that and now live in Atlanta. When I go back home to visit, I always come back feeling a bit more grounded and centered. I’m sorry to hear your news. 🙁 I’ll be thinking of you and your family this weekend.

  3. Aw, I’m so sorry to hear about your Grandmother. It sounds like she lived a full & happy life and reminds me so much of my grandmother, who turned 98 this year and still lives in her own apartment, unassisted. And like your grandmother, has lived without her husband since the 80’s. So bizarre to imagine but the strength of these women is incredible and we can only hope to be half as strong as they were! I love that she mowed her own lawn until she was 84. Truly inspiring! Thinking of you & your family.

  4. So sorry to hear about your grandmother’s passing – she sounds like an amazing woman! This post was so beautifully written and serves as a great reminder of the things that truly matter in life. xoxo

  5. Oh Liz- I’m so sorry to hear about your grandmother. I lost mine a few year’s back- we were super close and she was such an inspiration in my life, it definitely was not easy. But at the same time I learned so much from her that I’m just so thankful I had her in my life. Your dad and whole family sounds absolutely amazing- and I just loved seeing this side of you in this post. xx

  6. What a wonderful loving tribute…very sorry for your loss. Your Grandmother lives on in everything you do and will always be there in your heart.

    Hugs, Lisa

  7. I’m so sorry for your loss — I spent last weekend with my boyfriend’s family as his grandpa had passed, and it was such a wonderful celebration of a very simple man who simply lived and loved his family. Sometimes the most barebones things are the most important, yes?

  8. Sorry to hear about your grandma, Liz. I also lost mine last year..
    And I totally agree with what you say about a small town: I grew up in a small town in Ukraine, and whenever I go back there, after living in NYC, it’s amazing!

  9. Beautifully written post. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Grandmothers are very strong women! They are simply the best. xoxo

  10. Dear Liz, Emily, Will, Denise and Rob-
    I’m so very sorry for your loss! Sounds like your grandmother was a wonderful woman.
    My condolences to the Schneider family. May you have a wonderful time celebrating her amazing life!!
    xoAngie Lisy

  11. I’m so sorry to hear of your loss! Your grandma sounds like an AMAZING woman and I just know she was so proud of everything you’re accomplishing. How great it is to have a little town (and a wonderful woman) in your life!

    xoxo,
    Chelsea & The City

  12. Liz, so sorry to hear about the loss of your grandmother and the loss for your dad. It is a nice reminder to be grateful and appreciate what you do have for a change. Thoughts and prayers your family’s way!

  13. I am so sorry for your loss. This is a beautiful reminder to be grateful for all that we have– thank you for that.
    ~Lindsay

  14. I am sorry for your loss , it’s so true the life that we are living in the present it is so material that we do not appreaciate little things and our family as we suppose to and then something happen that make you realize which are the most importan things in life !

  15. So sorry for your loss. You grandmother sounds like an amazing woman who lived a beautiful life. Family is so important and I’m sure your dad has passed on the same values and ideals that your grandparents instilled in him to you.

  16. Thinking about you and your dear family. It is such a wonderful thing that you can look back during a sad time in life and be grateful. That is a blessing in itself.